Beware of Web-ertisements

So as data becomes increasingly available, and more and more small businesses start to utilize the new advertisement tool. BEWARE. Some places may hold their opinion of their establishment in higher reguard than actually is, of course, beauty is in of the beholder. That said, Google+, Travel osity, and Trip adviser are all very good resources. If they dont have any comments, well then buyer be ware. 

Second post in a week.. Now thats better

ok topic today... is your relationship being HIJACKED?!?

 Most of us for one reason or another don't even see the warning signs at first, but the overall outcome is the same, a relationship that is stuck.  Your frustrated; pick a reason; no dinner when you came home, too much time apart, no intimacy, socks in the middle of the floor. The list is too long to go through. BUT! the BIGGEST reason for your relationship being stuck is...  wait...

YOU!

 and mostly it is unmet expectations you have put on the person your with.

Hollywood paints this picture that if I was only with the perfect person, then it would be unicorns and rainbows with pixie dust. What a load of poppycock ( I used it, what of it ). Is that how your job works? So you have the perfect job and it's wonderful? I'll bet a months salary that you actually "work" at your job. AND you probably try to think about your co workers. Then WHY would you not work at your relationship?? It's much harder to blend two people, regardless of their personality types, than putting up with people you may or may not like for 8 hours.

The HAPPY ENDING that everyone wants is right there in front of them, WITH the person they are in a relationship with ( NOT SOMEONE ELSE ). You need to put your needs on the back burner, not forever, if they love you they will catch on and do the same. If after really putting them first they arent returning the love, then it's time for the talk, and if still no change.  You seek outside help,  Prayer, a pastor, counseling (not family - unless their a pastor or a counselor).

Wow it's been awhile

So what has Changed since I posted in 2011... Alot, and not so much. Mr. Obama is still ruining the country (no it wasn't a type-o). I got a degree, so did my beautiful bride, kids both graduated and one had a kid. BUT Jesus is still MY God, and through his love I still have no gray hair, in-spite of all the stress.

Currently, I'm in the mist of a Motorcycle repair, Job transition, and child rescue (long story). Life never seems to be boring around me, which is fine, it helps me appreciate the quiet moments.

So today is Fathers Day. Overall a good day, hopefully I will get to take my kid and grand kid to the Zoo.

More later