ok topic today... is your relationship being HIJACKED?!?
Most of us for one reason or another don't even see the warning signs at first, but the overall outcome is the same, a relationship that is stuck. Your frustrated; pick a reason; no dinner when you came home, too much time apart, no intimacy, socks in the middle of the floor. The list is too long to go through. BUT! the BIGGEST reason for your relationship being stuck is... wait...
YOU!
and mostly it is unmet expectations you have put on the person your with.
Hollywood paints this picture that if I was only with the perfect person, then it would be unicorns and rainbows with pixie dust. What a load of poppycock ( I used it, what of it ). Is that how your job works? So you have the perfect job and it's wonderful? I'll bet a months salary that you actually "work" at your job. AND you probably try to think about your co workers. Then WHY would you not work at your relationship?? It's much harder to blend two people, regardless of their personality types, than putting up with people you may or may not like for 8 hours.
The HAPPY ENDING that everyone wants is right there in front of them, WITH the person they are in a relationship with ( NOT SOMEONE ELSE ). You need to put your needs on the back burner, not forever, if they love you they will catch on and do the same. If after really putting them first they arent returning the love, then it's time for the talk, and if still no change. You seek outside help, Prayer, a pastor, counseling (not family - unless their a pastor or a counselor).
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